oh well i guess this is as good a spot as any to jump in
chad your right on the money
Spike, if we did some arse would want us to give it to someone else.

i posted on the "lets buy a kid a plane not doug " thread to delete it. it was rediculous to reappropriate the good will of the VAF community.
i think what they are doing for doug is cool. once you get to this age there isnt much poeple can give you in the way of a gift that you will really ever use or get excited about like a little kid. (man i miss that

) i simply tell my wife "if you cant get me a airplane, corvette, or something similar, then a card and a kiss is fine.."(which is really all i want anyway

) .i mean really, anything else is just a nick nack thats gonna take up space. i got enough friggin underwear and clothes already

Too many token gifts out there and the peple getting rich selling "stuff."
I do think its great that someone is going to get such a cool gift...at this age, 41, we dont get much in the way of Good suprises anymore.
i dont donate to dougs site, i didnt donate to his 3b project . i think both are cool. (I wanted to donate to the 3b but its against my personal policy)
As long as its a donation i wont pay it. i donate to charitys not peoples hobbies or "jobs".
The word donate to me means NOT for profit but to benifit a real and substantial need. the donation was started under the premise it was for kids college funds..thats not my problem. i made provisions for my childs college before he was born. long before i started building because that was my personal priority.I think a Family should put a childs education way ahead of a hobbie. hoping donations will make up fo my selfishness is quite foolish..he won the 1 in a million on that gamble. i wouldnt suggest trying that one again.
When Dougs site goes to being a pay site, and i am sure it will soon, i will pay. i dont mind paying but i wont fool myself or you by saying its a donation. He's been moving that way at a snails pace and it is becoming more obvious every day. in short doug's place is first class. he has done very well for himself and VAF. i have no intent to bring harm to it. are there some jerks over there? sure there are but then they are everywhere...i simply dont see anyreason to think there is any sort of rivalry between the two.
if any part of this post is offensive i appologize it isnt meant to offend.
this part may offend some however. the rules he has set for who should not pay, are in and of themselves offensive.
william....don't let it beat you down, you are stronger than you think.