How about Caldwell (KCDW) in New Jersey? Far enough from LGA and JFK to avoid messing with Class B airspace when arriving from Boston. Folks coming from the south would have to sneak around Newark.
There's a good restaurant there, one of those military-themed places like the ones at Farmingdale NY, Wilmington DE and College Park, MD.
Come to think of it, Farmingdale isn't a bad choice either if you don't mind some overwater flying coming up from the south.
Dave
New England Wing North....waaaay north!